Experience transforms us. Some people are changed into someone who will “never do that again” based on some unpleasant experience in the past. Others on the team understand the way a victory can erase the pain and scars that it took to achieve it. Both types have a hard time understanding the other. One doesn’t see the work of the team as a burden but a path. The other doesn’t ever see the light at the end of the tunnel so they try to make the tunnel as comfortable as possible.